INFP girl should read this

Bismillahirahmanirahim,
Assalamualaikum & Hello.
An INFP person, never thought I'm one of them. For the fist I'm doing the personality test it is like hard to believe it. Then I goes for another test like seven test in one day and for the next day too. The result is still the same ! Okayyyy, even after a month I took the test again the result is still I'm still an INFP person. So, what can I do it just like my personality again. I need to bare with it and make used to it. It definetly more positive when my roommate now which is my housemate before state that I'm a sensitive girl. Yes, it so true I can't control my emotion really well then it will turn to an emotional girl. Recently, there are a lot of group assignment need to be done. It make me so miserable and hopeless because I want the work that my group member does same like me, if not then I will correct it back. Yeah, I know it freaking right ! But then I read that INFP person "maybe control freakin in group project" then yuppp it's so true TT. I have like every subject that I took this semester involve the group project. Then I the one who always unsatisfied with all the work by my teammate. I know this is too bad, I'm feel sorry for them. So, to overcome this problem I'm always devide the work evenly to each group member and ask another member to compile it. If I'm the one who compile it, then all those work I will change eventually. Haaaaa, that worse Melur! Okay, that is so my bad. Next, as INFP I notice that I'm always put all the blame to myself. Like most recently, our project been rejected by the panel and what come across my mind is that all my fault because I never study the project properly before and lack from the side of information. But back then it's a group member, maybe I should ask their opinion regarding this project and not decided my myself. Ahhh, why I'm the person like this. I never thought before this personality could be really flaw to me. Not to tell about I'm so need to survive with own insecurity. It is always an insecurity vibe in my thoughts even the small matter involve the insecurity. I need a punch on my face maybe. Nevertheless, I'm feel sorry to the people around me on how I'm react to them. Since, sometimes it look like me is okay but then I turn into something not to take into  consideration. It really hard to become Melur like real hard haha haha I really wanna know about other INFP person in the world !
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